It’s TUESDAY CHAT WITH CELEB💃
Good day guys. It’s really been a while. I believe y’all have been doing pretty well. Glory be to God. You may want to answer no but I want to put it to you that no matter what situation you may be in, you will still have reasons to thank God(if you think well).
Okay now, there’s something i’d like to discuss with you guys today and I hope we’re all going to be blessed as we share our thoughts and opinions about a discussion I title approval addiction.
Now let’s get into it…👇🤗
Could it be that the reason most people(youths) are in relationships is for fear if being alone?
Does it mean that we wouldn’t be whole if we do not have the title, ‘boyfriend or girlfriend’ hung behind our names?
Do we actually need those we are in relationships with or we just want them to fill a void in our lives?
There are many more questions we could review but I would like us to discuss these together and think on a way forward.
I have realised that in this age that we are in, almost everyone is in a relationship(i mean sexual/romantic relationship); but then i sat to think about what the importance of these relationships are in our lives individually.
Do not get me wrong, relationships are good but they may not be right or good for us at a particular time.
Just as we’ve always known, there is time for everything, we should learn to know when things are good for us and where they are not.
First of all, we are all in the process of learning and sometimes, if we dont make mistakes, we may not be able to get things right. So, in other words, some of us have made mistakes which we have keqrnt from and they have made us
better people. Can I have a witness..🤗🙋
Alot of us have been so engrossed with having people around and also allowed the western mentality sink so much into us that we’ve forgotten our own heritage and who we really are.
I think young people want to be in relationships because we lack independency, we think we will not be able to survive if we are not attached to someone-a boyfriend or girlfriend. But this is so wrong. God has created everyone of us in a way that we will always need Him; so it saddens the heart how people ignore God and put more importance on human beings
We don’t have to be in relationships! Yes. We dont have to have boyfriends or girlfriends. Singleness is not a curse, it is a great thing. It is a time for us young people to find out who we are, a time of discovery of self and life’s purpose.
When we are single, we have enough time to think about what we want to do and what we want to get out of our lives; it is a time to know God better and build a concrete relationship with him. Contrarily, when we add someone else (a boyfriend or a girlfriend), we add to the list of things we have to bother about and we begin to bear another person’s burden. Which is not actually how God wants things to be for us.
God wishes for us to prosper in our health, mind and spirit so he doesnt want us to involve anything that will mar the actualization of that in our lives.
This is already long enough .. so i guess we’ll continue in the next post(if you guys sant me us to). Kindly drop your comments and let l me know what You think.
God bless you fam. Thanks for your time 😍
Have a splendid week ahead